Kindness is a virtue, but if it is used against the wrong person, it becomes a shackle. We often hold an umbrella for others, but forget that we are also in the rain. If the other party never understands and only takes your efforts for granted, the relationship will lose balance. The truly worthy person will pull you into the umbrella when you are soaking wet, rather than letting you bear the whole storm alone.
The most precious companionship is not an expensive gift, but the willingness to make time for you. I can be very idle for you, reply to messages immediately, and answer calls at any time, just because you are important. I am always there when you look for me, not because I have nothing to do, but because you are worth putting aside everything else. As long as you are here, I will never be busy.
When a relationship makes you feel irritated and uneasy for a long time, and you cannot improve it through hard work, leaving may be the best choice. It is not because the other person is not good, but because you have become bad in this relationship. A healthy relationship should bring growth and peace, not consumption and depression. Learning to leave is the greatest fulfillment and protection for yourself.
Maturity is not about suppressing emotions, but knowing how to express them properly at the right time, facing difficulties rationally and solving problems proactively. A man's childish behavior is often a relaxation shown to the person he trusts, which does not mean immaturity. True maturity is the ability to coexist peacefully with oneself and others. When only one side in a relationship requires "maturity, stability and making others happy", it will only cause imbalance and ignore the fact that the other party is also a person who needs emotional value. Maturity should be a process of mutual understanding and growth between both parties.
When you meet someone who is chronically negative, you should be honest with yourself about your ability to handle it. If you cannot handle it, you should keep your distance to avoid emotional friction on both sides. In the early stages, you can listen patiently and give neutral advice, but if the other person has no intention of changing and complains repeatedly, you should clearly express your refusal to become an emotional trash can. Only by walking with people with positive energy can you go further and have a better life.
The main reason I bought this house in Yilan was because it had a small garden, which is what I have told my guests over the years that this is the kind of residence they have been pursuing. In front of the house is the vast, unobstructed countryside, and in the distance you can see the magnificent mountains. This place is very convenient, with beautiful scenery, chirping insects and birds. I have decided from the beginning that this is where my children will rest in peace.
The weather today is very sunny, just a little windy. Tell Aben that today is a good day. I will help you bury you in the small garden where we often play. After getting up and washing up briefly, he took Ah Ben's urn downstairs and first turned up the Sanskrit Heart Sutra that was played every day on the first floor. Then he walked out of the door, picked up a small shovel, and dug a small hole under each big tree in the small garden.
As if to comfort me in this way, the decision I made that day to take Him home to rest was the best option. At least He could pass away slowly in a safe and familiar home, leaning on me. I don't know why I had such a dream, reliving the scene of farewell again, and it was in the worst hospital, parting in a cold iron cage. It was all so unforgettable.
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Every encounter hides the possibility of saying goodbye, but people often ignore the preciousness of the moment. There is a difference between a planned farewell and an unexpected farewell. The unexpected farewell is the most painful. Treat every encounter with care, such as hugging and saying goodbye, it can become a lasting memory. Understand goodbye to impermanence, learn to live in the present, and cherish the moments of love and gratitude.
