Ever since I started working, I have basically been on vacation during the Chinese New Year, and I have no motivation to work at all. The reason for this actually started when I was a child.
When I was a child, I was scolded most often by my grandma. She had to ask my parents to come to dinner. Because I often couldn't come, I would be scolded. And if I did it two or three times, my parents would scold me!
At this time, grandma will say: "How many gentlemen are there?"
Although he would curse like this, and then divide the dishes and reserve them for his parents to enjoy later, it may be because of this reason, so when he was a child, he would remember to eat everything in his bowl, because there is a limit to the amount of food, so he would not eat it himself. It's gone,
It’s okay on weekdays, but it’s like this during the Chinese New Year too. I really don’t understand what it’s doing! ?
Books don’t always say that New Year’s Eve is when the whole family has a reunion dinner around the fire. At that time, I just thought, don’t these uncles, uncles, and aunts who come to the house need to go home? Or they don’t have warmth in their own home and they insist on disturbing me during meal time. Can you please let my parents go and let them come and have dinner with us around the fire!
When I was a child, I could only hypnotize myself. Maybe because my family was poor, my parents worked hard every day to make money so that they could raise four children. As a result, they worked almost 365 days a year.
Due to the influence of my childhood, I have always felt that this kind of living situation is not very good, so I will definitely not work during vacations, unless there are some special unavoidable circumstances, but I will definitely not work during the New Year!
When I grew up, I was fortunate enough to enter a workplace where I would definitely take vacations during the Chinese New Year. This has been extended for nearly 20 years, and it is a fixed pattern of vacations during the New Year holidays.
People say that the older you get, the more stubborn you become. This seems to have become a constraint, so that during the Chinese New Year, if you don’t want to, you will not touch the tools of your profession at all. Because of this, I have had several quarrels with my family. shelf.
I remember many years ago, there was a tense situation, and my sister-in-law asked me to help her do her hair. I said that it was the Chinese New Year holiday, so please come to my shop to do it on weekdays. I said she would give me money, but I said it was a matter of principle. The New Year's Day is a holiday, so I was choked and said, "Would you tell your guests this way when they usually come to your door?"
Customers who know me must know that I am a person who often refuses irrational requests. If I feel that it is unreasonable, I just ask them to hire someone else. I really can't do it because history has taught me that I am very unhappy when I am in a situation. , the finished product will not be too good, and it will make people feel irritated when they are rejected!
Just because I rejected my sister-in-law, she then mobilized the whole family to tell me to help her get it done, blah blah blah. Instead of being tortured every day, I immediately grabbed the bag and went back to Taipei.
Most of the time, people often say things in passing, but have you ever thought about others, are they really that easy? Why do everyone have to go along with your convenience? It's just because it's inconvenient for you, and then you happen to be asked to help when everyone is on vacation. But why can't others take vacations when you are on vacation?
Is this right or wrong? There is really nothing called right or wrong, it is just a matter of principle!
Unless the other person asks for it himself, you really shouldn’t ask for help while the person is on vacation. And after you have been rejected once or twice, don’t continue to talk about how much you have given because of that. That is really just consuming the love between each other!
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