Sometimes, in order to help others, we hold up an umbrella, but forget that we are also getting wet in the rain.
Often out of goodwill, we are willing to give, to be considerate, and even to put ourselves in a difficult position, just in the hope of making the other person's life better.
But if this kindness is misdirected towards others for a long time, it may turn from a well-intentioned and warm gesture into a shackle that hurts yourself.
Not everyone in the world knows how to be grateful. Some people take your thoughtfulness for granted and regard your tolerance as just a weakness.
When you stand strong in the wind and rain again and again, just to hold an umbrella to protect the other person, if the other person never feels that it is not necessary and never thinks of getting closer to you, then the relationship has begun to lose balance.
The person who is truly worthy of your umbrella will hand you a towel when he finds that you are getting wet, and will hold you close when he finds that there are no extra umbrellas, and will hold you close to share the ride, instead of just reaching out to take the umbrella and leaving you standing outside the umbrella, getting soaked.
This ungrateful person who lets you give endlessly may even say to you, "It's raining again, why don't you hold an umbrella? Where have you been?" until you fall seriously ill.
Those who hold an umbrella for others should also have their own sunshine and clear sky.
It started to rain heavily again. The umbrella that belonged to me had long been lost in the Ganges of time.
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