Tag: relation

Kindness is a virtue, but it should also be based on principles!

Kindness is a virtue, but if it is used against the wrong person, it becomes a shackle. We often hold an umbrella for others, but forget that we are also in the rain. If the other party never understands and only takes your efforts for granted, the relationship will lose balance. The truly worthy person will pull you into the umbrella when you are soaking wet, rather than letting you bear the whole storm alone.

Leaving is not about escaping, but about finding your true self

When a relationship makes you feel irritated and uneasy for a long time, and you cannot improve it through hard work, leaving may be the best choice. It is not because the other person is not good, but because you have become bad in this relationship. A healthy relationship should bring growth and peace, not consumption and depression. Learning to leave is the greatest fulfillment and protection for yourself.
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