Tag: harm

What should I do when I meet someone who keeps giving me negative emotions?

When you meet someone who is chronically negative, you should be honest with yourself about your ability to handle it. If you cannot handle it, you should keep your distance to avoid emotional friction on both sides. In the early stages, you can listen patiently and give neutral advice, but if the other person has no intention of changing and complains repeatedly, you should clearly express your refusal to become an emotional trash can. Only by walking with people with positive energy can you go further and have a better life.

Wounds are medals of growth, but no need to thank

I used to think that the person next to me was the most reliable, but I found that the deepest wounds often come from the people I care about the most. Love begins as gentle as drizzle, but often ends in determination and indifference. He learned not to trust easily and not to open up completely. Time may dilute everything, but it cannot erase the scars. Growth is inevitable, but hurt is not worth being grateful for. From then on, he smiled in the crowd and remained silent in the night. He learned to be reserved, to be on guard, and to move forward alone.
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