Tag: love

The loneliness of two people together is more complex and sharp than the loneliness of one person, because it is hidden in the daily alienation and betrayal of expectations. When people use "he is just a roommate" to cover up the breakdown of a relationship, they are actually admitting the reality that they cannot rely on each other. This kind of loneliness is scary, and it also prompts us to reflect: "Are we seeking companionship to escape loneliness, or for true connection?" Only by learning to get along with ourselves can we find a real relationship that does not require explanation.

The beauty of love does not lie in pursuing perfection, but in accepting imperfection and working together with the other person. True love comes from tolerating each other's shortcomings and creating happiness together through communication, understanding and compromise. A perfect relationship is not something that comes ready-made, but is the result of patience and hard work on both sides. When we let go of the illusion of perfection and give sincerely, love can shine in its truest light.

In love, excessive low self-esteem and lack of communication often make people mistakenly think that leaving is the fulfillment of the other person. In fact, people who truly love you will never dislike your imperfections, but will accept you wholeheartedly. But because you hypnotized yourself and pushed him away, you ended up hurting each other. True cherishment is to confess your feelings and face problems together, rather than to avoid and make assumptions. Don't let "loving" become "loved", because the reason for holding hands and falling in love is always to appreciate each other, not to be perfect.