Tag: companion

When a relationship makes you feel irritated and uneasy for a long time, and you cannot improve it through hard work, leaving may be the best choice. It is not because the other person is not good, but because you have become bad in this relationship. A healthy relationship should bring growth and peace, not consumption and depression. Learning to leave is the greatest fulfillment and protection for yourself.

Maturity is not about suppressing emotions, but knowing how to express them properly at the right time, facing difficulties rationally and solving problems proactively. A man's childish behavior is often a relaxation shown to the person he trusts, which does not mean immaturity. True maturity is the ability to coexist peacefully with oneself and others. When only one side in a relationship requires "maturity, stability and making others happy", it will only cause imbalance and ignore the fact that the other party is also a person who needs emotional value. Maturity should be a process of mutual understanding and growth between both parties.

I used to think that the person next to me was the most reliable, but I found that the deepest wounds often come from the people I care about the most. Love begins as gentle as drizzle, but often ends in determination and indifference. He learned not to trust easily and not to open up completely. Time may dilute everything, but it cannot erase the scars. Growth is inevitable, but hurt is not worth being grateful for. From then on, he smiled in the crowd and remained silent in the night. He learned to be reserved, to be on guard, and to move forward alone.