We love to make assumptions, especially when it comes to love.
You thought it was best for him, but you never thought that it was just your "thinking".
In love, there is often such a drama: you think the other person is so good, but you are not good enough.
So, you start to convince yourself: "He deserves better, I can't drag him down."
As he talked, this idea subconsciously persuaded and hypnotized him, and eventually it became a "fact".
You firmly believe that your exit will help his future.
However, will it really happen?
People who love you always want to tell you in various ways: you are good and you are worth it.
But your inferiority complex has built a wall, blocking his love.
Being inexplicably self-hypnotized, you feel that his efforts are like an invisible and huge pressure.
In the end, you chose to push him away and accidentally blurted out, "I can't see a future for us."
This seemingly unintentional remark was like a knife, piercing his heart.
When the person you once admired and loved deeply heard these words, would you suddenly doubt yourself: It turns out that I am really not good enough?
In the end, he chose to leave silently, because he loves you, so he will help you.
But what about you?
When he leaves, you look back: In the beginning, it was obviously because he was so good and you were afraid that your own shortcomings would hinder him.
How come in the end, it turned into "He's not good enough, and we will only drag each other down if we continue?"
All this is really just because of one-sided inferiority and lack of communication, which makes a beautiful love lose its balance.
Love is never a monologue, but a dialogue between two people.
You love him, and he loves you too. Why should it be so complicated for such a simple thing?
How can the person who loves you hate you because of your shortcomings?
What he loves is always the complete you, even those you think are "imperfect!"
And you, are you really denying his love for you because of these imperfections?
If you really love each other, don't run away.
Speak out what is in your heart, understand it together, and face it together.
In love, the most regrettable thing is not the separation, but the unspoken words and unnecessary misunderstandings.
Don't let "love" turn into "loved".
Remember, you chose to hold hands and walk together not because of "perfection", but because you appreciate each other's value in imperfection.
The true meaning of love should not be to enable each other to leave, but to enable each other to be together.
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