People always say, "Marriage is the only time in your life that you choose your family yourself."
But we still have a choice, and we will never betray your pet, right?
A while ago, old friends who have known me for nearly 30 years met to come and play with me. During the chat, they mentioned that since they met me, they didn’t seem to have many friends.
It seems that there were occasional relationship rumors only after many years. The longest period of absence should be six years. It was basically a matter of safety.
I replied to him because I am no longer casual and no longer as ridiculous as I was before I was twenty years old. The new hole is exciting.
In the past, when I was young, I relied on the fact that I was quite popular. As long as I thought it was okay and the other person was beautiful and had a good figure, I promised to be together for the welfare of my little head. After a while, I found that we had different ideas and said that we were not suitable. You deserve better and so on, this is the scumbag behavior of breaking up immediately.
After I turned 20, I didn’t know which nerve was wrong, and I suddenly realized the messy truth. For me, emotional giving should be completely selfless. When I love someone, I should be completely unrequited and can tolerate a lot for the other person. Things happen, and then they give in inexplicably again and again, but in the end, they are often the ones who get hurt the most, and then they heal in silence for a long time.
In order to respect the inexplicable pure original heart, we have always adopted the mentality of "preferring nothing to excess", and in order not to hurt each other, we have wrapped ourselves up tightly.
He also said that although there is no window for love, he is still young after all, and physical needs must always be taken into consideration. If he does meet someone who is not bad in appearance, he will make it clear directly. At most, it is just an exchange of body fluids. If he feels that it is not possible, don't do it. reluctantly.
We often say that liking is not love, and remind us from time to time that we are just running friends, which may be considered a different kind of scumbag behavior!
But at least they told her in advance that they would not be able to date each other, just out of necessity. If they really found out that the other party might be about to sink, they would tell her immediately and decisively that they would no longer contact her.
Just because I don’t want more problems to arise in the future because of differences in outlook, let alone discussing the life-long event of marriage.
After all, it is difficult to change a person. Even the parents you have been with for the longest time cannot change her. Why do you think you can help the other person change? You are not a savior or a great saint!
Three outlooks: outlook on life, world view, values
If you choose the wrong partner in your life, every step for the rest of your life will be wrong! You will experience all kinds of suffering and dilemmas in the world.
Appearance and money are important, but what is more important is character, responsibility and responsibility, as well as the upbringing and three views engraved in the bones of one's family of origin since childhood.
Some people come into your life and become your light, making you feel that this world is worthwhile and that this life is not in vain.
And some people will only extinguish your light.
People always want to find a companion with whom they can weather the ups and downs together.
Often you date without knowing each other clearly, and after getting married, you will find that most of the storms are brought by the other person for you.
I wish my friends that everyone will have a good ending!
If you really feel that something is wrong, please remember to stop your losses properly instead of wallowing in unhappiness all the time and muddle along every day.
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