People around me have always considered me to be a cynical and ruthless person. Indeed, there are only a few people I have seriously dated in my life, and most of them were just called "fuck buddies".
After all, most of the time, it’s just that I don’t like you that much to the point where it can develop into “love”, it’s really just about temporary physical convenience.
Although to outsiders this sounds like the behavior of a scumbag!
But at least before every "physical" relationship occurs, I will definitely tell the other party in advance that this is not love. If you can still accept this, then continue. If not, then don't have a connection beyond friendship.
It is very important to clearly inform the other party in advance that this is not a romantic relationship!
I have always made a clear distinction between "like" and "love". I may like you, really like you, or like you very much, but it does not necessarily mean "I love you".
I believe that words are powerful. To me, "love" is a very serious word. If love is truly spoken out loud, then it is definitely love. It is definitely not just something said casually, but a sincere commitment.
If our relationship has developed into "love" and I have seriously decided to be with you, I will definitely be the "brainless" person.
Let’s just put aside those things that usually seem like a bunch of nonsense to advise people, and all kinds of rational theoretical ideas.
Instead, I will try my best to love you, and even if something goes wrong in the process, I will work hard to repair and maintain this relationship.
When I really fall in love, of course I hope that the other person can feel the same way. However, most people would feel that such love is very stressful. Can't you love more easily and simply?
Modern people are always said to be living in fast food love, where everything comes and goes quickly; but I extremely yearn for the kind of love that the older generation had, where loving someone is for a lifetime.
Although most of them got married through blind dates, there was no love at the beginning. Instead, they got along slowly, worked hard, and experienced ups and downs together. For the sake of each other's future, they began to fall in love with each other and stayed together for the rest of their lives.
Although the process will always be bumpy, those who believe in love will always be determined to support their partner who suddenly stumbles, overcome all kinds of hardships, and walk together to the end, bidding farewell to each other.
I have always had this idea since I was a child. Shouldn't "love" be unconditional consideration for the other person?
But because of this damn belief, like a naive idea, every time I encounter emotional setbacks, when I really find myself hurt, I am already covered in bruises; after all, meeting a partner who holds the same view of love as you is almost impossible in today's society.
But no matter what, I agree with this beautiful love and believe that somewhere on the earth, there will always be someone who is worth your waiting.
Don’t just keep watching every hit TV series and envy the magical love stories on the screen like in idol dramas. Instead, you need to be dedicated and perform in the same way yourself, only then can you have a relationship that others will envy.
Still have to believe in love! You bastards!
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