A few days ago, Liangzi sent out a group of so-called fanboy friends and relatives, and began to take a large number of screenshots for her out of context, trying to create the idea that I am a horrible lover, so the woman will run away and the marriage will not survive.
I think I should briefly explain a few points about my journey along the way:
1. I was very serious from the beginning and wanted to go all the way with Liangzi. Although I found out after the marriage that she had some mental problems, the marriage was completed and I have become her family.
At that time, I just thought that if I didn't catch her properly, then who else would be able to catch her.
2. Marriage requires constant communication and running-in, but she has always been unwilling to communicate. She usually ends the topic by saying "That's it!"
I simply regarded marriage as a piece of cake. Although it only lasted four months, I still chose to endure most of the PUAs I received during that time silently.
When they met in the bedroom for the last time, he said that she was determined to get a divorce and asked her why. Just leave the sentence "no reason" and her most common saying "that's it"!
It makes Zhang Er confused and feels like it's happening again. It's just that my mother suddenly felt unhappy and ran away without further communication.
3. In the later period, even though I used various methods, that is, they kept throwing out various threats against me, but that incident also happened after she ran away, so I had no choice but to make this terrible move.
But those are not the biggest reasons for our divorce at all, right? ?
The key point should be that in the fourth month after marriage, she firmly said "no reason", that she wanted a divorce and then ran away. That was the biggest reason for our divorce. Please don't keep trying to confuse the timeline and accuse us!
4. Let’s go back to the beginning. The first divorce condition I offered her was to let her post on a locked friend’s private page saying, “I’m married, but I’m also going to get divorced!”
Saying this, at least let everyone know that they can care about her, because I was really worried about her at that time! I would like to ask, is this condition really excessive?
But she ignored it completely and kept dragging it on regardless, which made people more and more angry, and then it evolved to the point where she needed to publicly apologize!
5. Later, she resorted to direct blockade and completely refused to communicate. How should I deal with this? I tried every means, but I could only send private messages to her so-called friends! I just hope that she can really show up to deal with the matter as soon as possible.
It took almost a year. I should have sent only about a dozen strange messages, but the content of the private messages was actually very short. Most of them just dropped a sentence, asking her to come out quickly and face the response. And attached is a web page explaining the ins and outs of the incident. After all, I'm not familiar with them, so sending a private message is already very impolite, and saying anything more would be weird!
6. As for the 500,000 and 1 million they have been raising, they are just the most direct sanctions they can come up with to deal with Liangzi’s subsequent bad attitude. Maybe for his fans, as long as the marriage is not suitable for separation, it is fine. Money is threats and blackmail.
But in fact, the mental pressure I endured during this period was so great that it caused me to lose more than ten kilograms and caused some problems in my whole body and mind. How should I calculate this mental drain?
What's more, during the mediation process in court, both parties would have proposed "reconciliation conditions." The one million was because she refused to apologize. Where did the conditions proposed in the trial come from?
7. His fans always want to catch war criminals, and taking screenshots out of context to try to slander them are all my fault!
I have already responded to them. If you want to see all the conversations we have had over the past year, I have a backup and uploaded it to my Internet space. As long as they obtain the woman's consent and sign, they will not be charged with the crime of obstructing secrecy.
I am really willing to make the text file, which has not been deleted for a whole year, from the first day of acquaintance to the last conversation, open to the public for everyone to freely download and enjoy.
If she wants me to keep the evidence and videos for the judge to see, and wants everyone to watch them together, I have no problem and can provide them all for everyone to judge.
I am such an open and honest person, I don’t have any hidden secrets, and I won’t hide or hide words that are unfavorable to me.
Otherwise, why would I write the article until the later stage and be scolded by people who can't stand it! Just because I recorded all the conversations, those with too many violent words were also posted in the article!
You are not like you, who only pick out events that seem to be beneficial to you!
8. Maybe in the past, only girls would encounter such unfair events in divorce!
As a man, I just damn encountered it!
But who would want to experience this experience?
I can only say that only those who have experienced this can really understand it! The attitude of being completely ignored and not actively dealing with it is really harmful to a person's soul!
9. After encountering marriage fraud, being blocked, disappearing, and going to court to file for divorce, I seemed to have no choice but to accept it completely. During this period, I just wanted to have a good talk.
But in exchange for no communication or response at all, I was forced to resort to words and write down my journey of thoughts in order to express the overwhelming pressure that was driving me crazy.
In the end, I was really overwhelmed and my body had an allergic reaction. I couldn't bear it and just wanted to solve it quickly. I gave her a time to divorce unconditionally, but the other party still didn't show up!
10. I am simply the biggest victim in this marriage! I experienced insomnia and anorexia, which led to physical and mental problems, and I lost weight suddenly.
The watch that monitors my physical condition keeps jumping notifications from time to time, telling me that it has detected potential stress or excitement, which means that my heart rate is too high!
These records are backed up in the cloud, and all detailed records can be easily searched.
11. As for running away for no reason after four months of marriage, he shouted to her to come out and deal with the words he was facing. At first, he was polite and did not listen, but later when the mood got stronger, he would definitely make some extreme remarks.
But imagine meeting such a person. Can everyone really become a living Bodhisattva who doesn’t lose his temper?
Please touch your conscience that may be deceived, think about it carefully, and then answer me. After being tortured like this all the time, can you really not say bad words at all in the end?
I believe that after all this turmoil, everyone can make their own public comments about right and wrong. Those who can’t listen will never listen, so I really can’t say anything more.
Finally, we have already agreed to sign for divorce on 7/18, which is today! I will go to the scene and wait for her to sign the divorce!
I hope this is really the last time we see each other and we never have to contact you again!
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