{"id":9437,"date":"2024-12-25T07:29:59","date_gmt":"2024-12-24T23:29:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/doolounge.com\/split-up\/"},"modified":"2025-06-12T07:53:49","modified_gmt":"2025-06-11T23:53:49","slug":"split-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/it\/split-up\/","title":{"rendered":"lasciarsi decentemente"},"content":{"rendered":"

lasciarsi decentemente

Penso che il modo pi\u00f9 ideale per separarsi sia che due persone si siedano onestamente, parlino chiaramente, si dicano che si apprezzano a vicenda e si separino chiaramente, invece di scegliere di evitarsi o trattarsi a vicenda con indifferenza.

La peggiore rottura \u00e8 non dire mai nulla e usare ogni tipo di violenza fredda per mantenere l'altra parte nella confusione e nel dolore, e alla fine non avere altra scelta che arrendersi.

Chiesto perch\u00e9? L'unica risposta sar\u00e0 sempre: "Nessun motivo, \u00e8 semplicemente inappropriato!"

Oppure fingendo di essere premuroso, dicendo che sei davvero gentile, ma non sono abbastanza bravo per te... recitando in una commedia affettuosa, incolpando te stesso di tutti gli errori, ma facendo sentire l'altra persona in colpa, a disagio e persino gravata di troppa pressione emotiva.

Un finale del genere sarebbe troppo negligente e irrispettoso per due persone che una volta si trattavano sinceramente.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"\"<\/figure>\n\n\n\n


Invidio sempre il modo decente di lasciarsi!

Se un giorno la relazione finisce e la persona che vuole andarsene pu\u00f2 scegliere un pomeriggio confortevole e soleggiato e invitare l'altra persona a prendere una tazza di t\u00e8.

Quindi esprimi con franchezza i tuoi pensieri interiori: perch\u00e9 hai scelto di andartene, quali sono i problemi tra le due parti e se c'\u00e8 ancora la possibilit\u00e0 di continuare.

Anche se questo tipo di conversazione non \u00e8 necessariamente facile, c'\u00e8 il massimo rispetto per la relazione.

Quando esponi tutto, scegli di perdonare ci\u00f2 che dovrebbe essere lasciato andare e di dire addio con calma quando \u00e8 il momento di finire, non importa se l'altra parte pu\u00f2 accettarlo completamente o no, hai almeno posto fine completamente a questa relazione invece di lasciare ogni genere di cose inutili e rimpianti.

Un simile modo di separarsi non \u00e8 solo responsabile dell'altra parte, ma anche del proprio passato.

La rottura non \u00e8 un campo di battaglia, ma un sincero addio a un periodo un tempo meraviglioso.

Anche se scegli di andartene, lascer\u00e0 l\u2019ultima dignit\u00e0 della relazione, non solo cicatrici.

# Emozione # Rottura # Sentimento # Cicatrice # Fredda violenza # Dignitoso # Inadeguato # Nessun motivo # Premuroso # Affettuoso # Dramma # Colpa # Inquietudine # Pressione # Rilassamento # Rispetto # Periodo 1TP5 T Indovina # Rammarico # Responsabile # L'altra parte # Bello 1TP5 T campo di battaglia # Amare # separarsi # lasciare # sinceramente # dire addio # scegliere # stronza \u00e8 ipocrita

Chiunque si sia donato sinceramente in una relazione o in un amore merita un addio franco e dignitoso.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Se un giorno la relazione finisce e la persona che vuole andarsene pu\u00f2 scegliere un pomeriggio confortevole e soleggiato e invitare l'altra persona a prendere una tazza di t\u00e8.<\/p>\n

Quindi esprimi con franchezza i tuoi pensieri interiori: perch\u00e9 hai scelto di andartene, quali sono i problemi tra le due parti e se c'\u00e8 ancora la possibilit\u00e0 di continuare.<\/p>\n

Anche se questo tipo di conversazione non \u00e8 necessariamente facile, c'\u00e8 il massimo rispetto per la relazione.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":10065,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"activitypub_content_warning":"","activitypub_content_visibility":"","activitypub_max_image_attachments":4,"activitypub_interaction_policy_quote":"anyone","activitypub_status":"federated","footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"beyondwords_generate_audio":"","beyondwords_project_id":"","beyondwords_content_id":"","beyondwords_player_style":"","beyondwords_language_id":"","beyondwords_title_voice_id":"","beyondwords_body_voice_id":"","beyondwords_summary_voice_id":"","beyondwords_error_message":"","beyondwords_disabled":"","beyondwords_delete_content":"","beyondwords_podcast_id":"","beyondwords_hash":"","publish_post_to_speechkit":"","speechkit_hash":"","speechkit_generate_audio":"","speechkit_project_id":"","speechkit_podcast_id":"","speechkit_error_message":"","speechkit_disabled":"","speechkit_access_key":"","speechkit_error":"","speechkit_info":"","speechkit_response":"","speechkit_retries":"","speechkit_updated_at":"","_speechkit_link":"","_speechkit_text":""},"categories":[1070,58,131],"tags":[1071,1038,1072],"class_list":["post-9437","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-emotion","category-wife","category-essay","tag-1071","tag-1038","tag-1072"],"blocksy_meta":[],"featured_image_urls":{"full":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/fb_img_17496860039865172376973822376036.jpg",1013,1800,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/fb_img_17496860039865172376973822376036-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/fb_img_17496860039865172376973822376036-169x300.jpg",169,300,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/fb_img_17496860039865172376973822376036-768x1365.jpg",768,1365,true],"large":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/fb_img_17496860039865172376973822376036-576x1024.jpg",576,1024,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/fb_img_17496860039865172376973822376036-864x1536.jpg",864,1536,true],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/fb_img_17496860039865172376973822376036.jpg",1013,1800,false],"trp-custom-language-flag":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/fb_img_17496860039865172376973822376036-7x12.jpg",7,12,true]},"post_excerpt_stackable":"

\u5047\u5982\u6709\u4e00\u5929\u611f\u60c5\u8d70\u5230\u4e86\u76e1\u982d\uff0c\u60f3\u8981\u96e2\u958b\u7684\u90a3\u4e00\u65b9\uff0c\u80fd\u5920\u6311\u4e00\u500b\u8212\u9069\u53c8\u967d\u5149\u660e\u5a9a\u7684\u5348\u540e\uff0c\u7d04\u5c0d\u65b9\u51fa\u4f86\u559d\u676f\u8336\u3002<\/p>\n

\u7136\u5f8c\u5766\u7387\u5730\u8868\u9054\u81ea\u5df1\u5167\u5fc3\u7684\u60f3\u6cd5\uff1a\u5230\u5e95\u662f\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u9078\u64c7\u96e2\u958b\uff0c\u96d9\u65b9\u7684\u554f\u984c\u5728\u54ea\u88e1\uff0c\u662f\u5426\u9084\u6709\u7e7c\u7e8c\u7684\u53ef\u80fd\u6027\u3002<\/p>\n

\u9019\u6a23\u7684\u5c0d\u8a71\u96d6\u7136\u4e0d\u4e00\u5b9a\u8f15\u9b06\uff0c\u4f46\u537b\u662f\u5c0d\u9019\u6bb5\u611f\u60c5\u6700\u5927\u7684\u5c0a\u91cd\u3002<\/p>\n","category_list":"\u60c5\u611f<\/a>, \u795e\u7d93\u75c5<\/a>, \u96a8\u7b46<\/a>","author_info":{"name":"\u9673\u6cd5","url":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/it\/author\/doolounge\/"},"comments_num":"0 commenti","jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/fb_img_17496860039865172376973822376036.jpg","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":9432,"url":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/it\/insider\/","url_meta":{"origin":9437,"position":0},"title":"\u6575\u4eba\u5c31\u5728\u672c\u80fd\u5bfa\uff01","author":"\u9673\u6cd5","date":"2024 \u5e74 12 \u6708 21 \u65e5","format":false,"excerpt":"\u300c\u6575\u4eba\u5c31\u5728\u672c\u80fd\u5bfa\uff01\u300d\u9019\u53e5\u6e90\u81ea\u65e5\u672c\u6230\u570b\u6642\u671f\u672c\u80fd\u5bfa\u4e4b\u8b8a\uff0c\u6307\u660e\u667a\u5149\u79c0\u53db\u7e54\u7530\u4fe1\u9577\uff0c\u610f\u70ba\u300c\u6575\u4eba\u5c31\u5728\u5167\u90e8\u300d\u3002 \u5982\u2026","rel":"","context":"In "\u6b77\u53f2"","block_context":{"text":"\u6b77\u53f2","link":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/it\/category\/romantic\/history\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/fb_img_17347273531797682131904887974537.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/fb_img_17347273531797682131904887974537.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/fb_img_17347273531797682131904887974537.jpg?resize=525%2C300&ssl=1 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/fb_img_17347273531797682131904887974537.jpg?resize=700%2C400&ssl=1 2x"},"classes":[]},{"id":9744,"url":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/it\/ben\/","url_meta":{"origin":9437,"position":1},"title":"\u963f\u7b28","author":"\u9673\u6cd5","date":"2025 \u5e74 3 \u6708 23 \u65e5","format":false,"excerpt":"\u963f\u7b28\uff01\u7238\u6bd4\u771f\u7684\u771f\u7684\u5f88\u611b\u4f60\uff0c\u4f60\u6c38\u9060\u90fd\u662f\u6211\u6700\u5fc3\u611b\u7684\u4e56\u5152\u5b50\uff0c\u5c0f\u5929\u8ddf\u838e\u838e\u4e5f\u90fd\u662f\u6211\u6700\u611b\u7684\u5c0f\u670b\u53cb\uff0c\u6211\u771f\u7684\u5f88\u5e78\u904b\u4e5f\u2026","rel":"","context":"In "\u5bf5\u7269"","block_context":{"text":"\u5bf5\u7269","link":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/it\/category\/murmur\/pet\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/17427398659544485272253298845925.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/17427398659544485272253298845925.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/17427398659544485272253298845925.jpg?resize=525%2C300&ssl=1 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/17427398659544485272253298845925.jpg?resize=700%2C400&ssl=1 2x"},"classes":[]},{"id":7621,"url":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/it\/bento\/","url_meta":{"origin":9437,"position":2},"title":"\u5e78\u798f\u6eff\u6eff\u7684\u4fbf\u7576","author":"\u9673\u6cd5","date":"2024 \u5e74 3 \u6708 15 \u65e5","format":false,"excerpt":"\u4f60\u6709\u6c92\u5728\u4eba\u751f\u6975\u70ba\u5931\u610f\u6642\uff0c\u60f3\u8d77\u5403\u67d0\u5bb6\u751a\u9ebc\u6599\u7406\uff0c\u5c31\u6703\u5f97\u5230\u6eff\u6eff\u7684\u9f13\u52f5\uff0c\u90a3\u7a2e\u597d\u4f3c\u9644\u6709\u9b54\u6cd5\u611f\uff0c\u8b93\u4eba\u4e00\u53e3\u5165\u9b42\u3002","rel":"","context":"In "\u65e5\u5287"","block_context":{"text":"\u65e5\u5287","link":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/it\/category\/drama\/japan\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/FB_IMG_1710490682747.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/FB_IMG_1710490682747.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/FB_IMG_1710490682747.jpg?resize=525%2C300&ssl=1 1.5x"},"classes":[]},{"id":1999,"url":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/it\/ion-hair-dryer\/","url_meta":{"origin":9437,"position":3},"title":"\u8ca0\u96e2\u5b50\u5439\u98a8\u6a5f","author":"\u9673\u6cd5","date":"2023 \u5e74 1 \u6708 2 \u65e5","format":false,"excerpt":"\u300c\u8ca0\u96e2\u5b50\u300d\uff0c\u5176\u5be6\u662f\u5f9e\u65e5\u6587\u3010\u30de\u30a4\u30ca\u30b9\u30a4\u30aa\u30f3\u3011\u7ffb\u8b6f\u800c\u6210\uff0c\u9019\u4e32\u65e5\u6587\u662f\u5f9e\u82f1\u6587\u3010minus ion\u3011\u97f3\u8b6f\u904e\u4f86\u7684\u2026","rel":"","context":"In "\u963f\u5b85\u5de5\u7a0b\u5e2b"","block_context":{"text":"\u963f\u5b85\u5de5\u7a0b\u5e2b","link":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/it\/category\/geek\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/FB_IMG_1713105144708.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/FB_IMG_1713105144708.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/FB_IMG_1713105144708.jpg?resize=525%2C300&ssl=1 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/FB_IMG_1713105144708.jpg?resize=700%2C400&ssl=1 2x"},"classes":[]},{"id":7154,"url":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/it\/six-degrees\/","url_meta":{"origin":9437,"position":4},"title":"\u516d\u5ea6\u5206\u9694\u7406\u8ad6 Six Degrees of Separation","author":"\u9673\u6cd5","date":"2024 \u5e74 2 \u6708 9 \u65e5","format":false,"excerpt":"\u5927\u5bb6\u5f9e\u5c0f\uff0c\u5c31\u80af\u5b9a\u90fd\u6709\u807d\u904e\u9019\u7406\u8ad6\uff0c\u5c31\u662f\u4e16\u754c\u4e0a\uff0c\u4efb\u4f55\u672c\u4f86\u4e92\u4e0d\u76f8\u8b58\u7684\u5169\u4eba\uff0c\u53ea\u9700\u8981\u900f\u904e\u5f88\u5c11\u7684\u4e2d\u9593\u4eba\uff0c\u6700\u591a\u4e5f\u53ea\u2026","rel":"","context":"In "\u795e\u7d93\u75c5"","block_context":{"text":"\u795e\u7d93\u75c5","link":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/it\/category\/wife\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/17074141326877951256436867727169.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/17074141326877951256436867727169.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/17074141326877951256436867727169.jpg?resize=525%2C300&ssl=1 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/17074141326877951256436867727169.jpg?resize=700%2C400&ssl=1 2x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/17074141326877951256436867727169.jpg?resize=1050%2C600&ssl=1 3x"},"classes":[]},{"id":7212,"url":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/it\/eye-drops\/","url_meta":{"origin":9437,"position":5},"title":"\u773c\u85e5\u6c34","author":"\u9673\u6cd5","date":"2024 \u5e74 2 \u6708 13 \u65e5","format":false,"excerpt":"\u6700\u8fd1\u958b\u59cb\u63a5\u89f8\u4e86\u5916\u6ccc\u9ad4\u9019\u65b0\u4e00\u4ee3\u7684\u751f\u5316\u79d1\u6280\uff0c\u9664\u4e86\u53ef\u4ee5\u9ad4\u5167\u6ce8\u5c04\u6d3b\u5316\u7d30\u80de\u4e4b\u5916\uff0c\u8ddf\u6211\u5e74\u5f8c\u6703\u958b\u555f\u7684\u65b0\u9805\u76ee\u505a\u982d\u76ae\uff1b\u2026","rel":"","context":"In "\u751f\u6d3b\u8457"","block_context":{"text":"\u751f\u6d3b\u8457","link":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/it\/category\/murmur\/living\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/facebook_1707795833408_7163014895247894231.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/facebook_1707795833408_7163014895247894231.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/facebook_1707795833408_7163014895247894231.jpg?resize=525%2C300&ssl=1 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/facebook_1707795833408_7163014895247894231.jpg?resize=700%2C400&ssl=1 2x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/facebook_1707795833408_7163014895247894231.jpg?resize=1050%2C600&ssl=1 3x"},"classes":[]}],"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9437","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9437"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9437\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10066,"href":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9437\/revisions\/10066"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10065"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9437"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9437"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9437"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}