{"id":10104,"date":"2025-06-17T12:38:16","date_gmt":"2025-06-17T04:38:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/doolounge.com\/umbrella-2\/"},"modified":"2025-06-17T12:43:17","modified_gmt":"2025-06-17T04:43:17","slug":"wrong-give","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/fr\/wrong-give\/","title":{"rendered":"La gentillesse est une vertu, mais elle doit aussi \u00eatre fond\u00e9e sur des principes !"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Parfois, pour aider les autres, nous brandissons un parapluie, mais nous oublions que nous sommes \u00e9galement mouill\u00e9s par la pluie.<br><br>Souvent, par bonne volont\u00e9, nous sommes pr\u00eats \u00e0 donner, \u00e0 \u00eatre pr\u00e9venants et m\u00eame \u00e0 nous mettre dans une position difficile, simplement dans l\u2019espoir d\u2019am\u00e9liorer la vie de l\u2019autre personne.<br><br>Mais si cette gentillesse est mal dirig\u00e9e vers les autres pendant une longue p\u00e9riode, elle peut se transformer d\u2019un geste bien intentionn\u00e9 et chaleureux en une entrave qui vous fait du mal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/fb_img_17501350775168372779288825941859-576x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-10103\" srcset=\"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/fb_img_17501350775168372779288825941859-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/fb_img_17501350775168372779288825941859-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/fb_img_17501350775168372779288825941859-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/fb_img_17501350775168372779288825941859-864x1536.jpg 864w, https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/fb_img_17501350775168372779288825941859-7x12.jpg 7w, https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/fb_img_17501350775168372779288825941859.jpg 1125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tout le monde ne sait pas \u00eatre reconnaissant. Certains tiennent votre pr\u00e9venance pour acquise et consid\u00e8rent votre tol\u00e9rance comme une simple faiblesse.<br \/><br \/>Lorsque vous r\u00e9sistez encore et encore au vent et \u00e0 la pluie, juste pour tenir un parapluie pour prot\u00e9ger l&#039;autre personne, si l&#039;autre personne ne sent jamais que ce n&#039;est pas n\u00e9cessaire et ne pense jamais \u00e0 se rapprocher de vous, alors la relation a commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 perdre l&#039;\u00e9quilibre.<br \/><br \/>La personne qui est vraiment digne de votre parapluie vous donnera une serviette quand elle verra que vous \u00eates mouill\u00e9, et vous tiendra pr\u00e8s d&#039;elle quand elle verra qu&#039;il n&#039;y a pas de parapluie suppl\u00e9mentaire, et vous tiendra pr\u00e8s d&#039;elle pour partager le trajet, au lieu de simplement tendre la main pour prendre le parapluie et vous laisser debout devant le parapluie, tremp\u00e9.<br \/><br \/>Cette personne ingrate qui vous laisse donner sans fin pourrait m\u00eame vous dire : \u00ab Il pleut encore, pourquoi ne prends-tu pas un parapluie ? O\u00f9 \u00e9tais-tu ? \u00bb jusqu&#039;\u00e0 ce que vous tombiez gravement malade.<br \/><br \/>Ceux qui tiennent un parapluie pour les autres devraient \u00e9galement avoir leur propre soleil et un ciel clair.<br \/><br \/>Il s&#039;est remis \u00e0 pleuvoir \u00e0 verse. Mon parapluie avait depuis longtemps disparu dans le Gange.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>La gentillesse est une vertu, mais si elle est donn\u00e9e \u00e0 la mauvaise personne, elle devient un frein.<\/p>\n<p>Nous tenons souvent des parapluies pour les autres, mais nous oublions que nous sommes \u00e9galement mouill\u00e9s par la pluie.<\/p>\n<p>Si l\u2019autre partie ne comprend jamais et ne prend vos efforts que pour acquis, la relation perdra son \u00e9quilibre.<\/p>\n<p>La personne vraiment digne vous tirera sous un parapluie lorsque vous serez tremp\u00e9, plut\u00f4t que de vous laisser affronter toute la temp\u00eate 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