{"id":9659,"date":"2025-03-13T10:45:54","date_gmt":"2025-03-13T02:45:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wound\/"},"modified":"2025-03-14T22:22:09","modified_gmt":"2025-03-14T14:22:09","slug":"wound","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/es\/wound\/","title":{"rendered":"Las heridas son medallas de crecimiento, pero no hay necesidad de agradecer."},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"1290\" height=\"726\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/xp7XkqjoNOU?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=es-ES&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Una vez crey\u00f3 que la persona a su lado era la m\u00e1s confiable. Despu\u00e9s de todo, en este mundo, quien pod\u00eda dormir con \u00e9l siempre era el m\u00e1s cercano.<br><br>A altas horas de la noche, con un ambiente familiar por todos lados, sue\u00f1os y realidad entrelazados, la confianza es algo natural.<br><br>\u00a1Pero estaba equivocado!<br><br>Cuando una persona decide irse, lo primero que deja ir definitivamente no son los sentimientos.<br><br>Ella conoc\u00eda todas sus debilidades, por lo que una palabra suya o un gesto suyo pod\u00edan dejar con precisi\u00f3n la herida m\u00e1s profunda en su coraz\u00f3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/fb_img_17418338966138308480480684764728-576x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-9658\" srcset=\"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/fb_img_17418338966138308480480684764728-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/fb_img_17418338966138308480480684764728-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/fb_img_17418338966138308480480684764728-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/fb_img_17418338966138308480480684764728-864x1536.jpg 864w, https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/fb_img_17418338966138308480480684764728-7x12.jpg 7w, https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/fb_img_17418338966138308480480684764728.jpg 1013w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">El amor debe ser gentil.<br><br>Pero a veces, es una cuchilla extremadamente afilada que corta tu inocencia y te permite ver la verdad del amor.<br><br>No todo afecto puede ser correspondido, y no toda espera puede resultar en el regreso del ser amado.<br><br>Pens\u00e9 que el amor pod\u00eda volver a las personas suaves, pero descubr\u00ed que hace que las personas aprendan a ser decisivas.<br><br>A partir de entonces aprendi\u00f3 a no confiar f\u00e1cilmente en nadie ni a confiar completamente en \u00e9l.<br><br>El amor es algo sutil. Siempre es suave al principio, embriagando a la gente con \u00e9l, como una llovizna que cae sobre el coraz\u00f3n, humedeciendo las cosas silenciosamente.<br><br>Sin embargo, su final suele ser decisivo. Cuando a\u00fan est\u00e1 inmerso en \u00e9l, la otra parte ya se ha retirado, dej\u00e1ndolo solo con un sue\u00f1o vac\u00edo.<br><br>Una vez pens\u00f3 que el amor pod\u00eda hacer que las personas fueran m\u00e1s suaves, pero luego descubri\u00f3 que el amor tambi\u00e9n pod\u00eda hacer que las personas aprendieran a ser despiadadas.<br><br>Aquellos que aman demasiado siempre fracasan miserablemente, por eso comienza a restringirse, a volverse fr\u00edo y a aprender a guardar cierto espacio en el amor.<br><br>Las heridas m\u00e1s profundas del mundo siempre vienen de las personas que m\u00e1s te importan.<br><br>Las palabras de los extra\u00f1os no son m\u00e1s que una r\u00e1faga de viento que sopla desde el camino y desaparecen tan pronto como son pronunciadas.<br><br>Pero la gente familiar conoce tus debilidades y sabe c\u00f3mo atacarlas con precisi\u00f3n, sin dejarte lugar al que escapar.<br><br>Una vez pens\u00f3 que el tiempo lo diluir\u00eda todo, pero algunas heridas nunca desaparecer\u00edan. Simplemente se convertir\u00edan lentamente en una cicatriz silenciosa en el largo r\u00edo del tiempo, record\u00e1ndole su antigua inocencia.<br><br>La gente tiene que crecer, esto es inevitable.<br><br>\u00bfPero qui\u00e9n dice que el crecimiento debe ser gracias al dolor?<br><br>El dolor es s\u00f3lo dolor y no vale la pena estar agradecido por \u00e9l.<br><br>No agradecer\u00e1 a quienes le ense\u00f1aron a ser indiferente, pero nunca m\u00e1s se dejar\u00e1 herir sin defensa.<br><br>Desde entonces aprendi\u00f3 a sonre\u00edr entre la multitud y a permanecer en silencio en la noche.<br><br>El mundo segu\u00eda siendo bullicioso y ruidoso, a nadie le importaba lo miserable que hab\u00eda sido y \u00e9l ya no abr\u00eda su coraz\u00f3n a nadie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"1290\" height=\"726\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/FCOy0ZYm64o?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=es-ES&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">versi\u00f3n cantonesa<\/figcaption><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sol\u00eda pensar que la persona a mi lado era la m\u00e1s confiable, pero descubr\u00ed que las heridas m\u00e1s profundas a menudo provienen de las personas que m\u00e1s me importan.<\/p>\n<p>El amor comienza tan suave como la llovizna, pero a menudo termina en determinaci\u00f3n e indiferencia.<\/p>\n<p>Aprendi\u00f3 a no confiar f\u00e1cilmente y a no abrirse completamente.<\/p>\n<p>El tiempo puede diluirlo todo, pero no puede borrar las cicatrices.<\/p>\n<p>El crecimiento es inevitable, pero no vale la pena agradecer el dolor.<\/p>\n<p>Desde entonces, sonri\u00f3 entre la multitud y guard\u00f3 silencio en la noche. Aprendi\u00f3 a ser reservado, a estar alerta y a avanzar 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