{"id":10104,"date":"2025-06-17T12:38:16","date_gmt":"2025-06-17T04:38:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/doolounge.com\/umbrella-2\/"},"modified":"2025-06-17T12:43:17","modified_gmt":"2025-06-17T04:43:17","slug":"wrong-give","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/es\/wrong-give\/","title":{"rendered":"La amabilidad es una virtud, \u00a1pero tambi\u00e9n debe basarse en principios!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A veces, para ayudar a los dem\u00e1s, levantamos un paraguas, pero olvidamos que tambi\u00e9n nos mojamos bajo la lluvia.<br><br>A menudo, por buena voluntad, estamos dispuestos a dar, a ser considerados e incluso a ponernos en una posici\u00f3n dif\u00edcil, s\u00f3lo con la esperanza de mejorar la vida de la otra persona.<br><br>Pero si esta bondad se dirige mal hacia los dem\u00e1s durante mucho tiempo, puede pasar de ser un gesto bien intencionado y c\u00e1lido a un grillete que te haga da\u00f1o a ti mismo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/fb_img_17501350775168372779288825941859-576x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-10103\" srcset=\"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/fb_img_17501350775168372779288825941859-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/fb_img_17501350775168372779288825941859-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/fb_img_17501350775168372779288825941859-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/fb_img_17501350775168372779288825941859-864x1536.jpg 864w, https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/fb_img_17501350775168372779288825941859-7x12.jpg 7w, https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/fb_img_17501350775168372779288825941859.jpg 1125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No todo el mundo sabe ser agradecido. Algunos dan por sentado tu consideraci\u00f3n y consideran tu tolerancia una simple debilidad.<br \/><br \/>Cuando te mantienes firme ante el viento y la lluvia una y otra vez, solo para sostener un paraguas para proteger a la otra persona, si la otra persona nunca siente que no es necesario y nunca piensa en acercarse a ti, entonces la relaci\u00f3n ha comenzado a perder el equilibrio.<br \/><br \/>La persona que realmente es digna de tu paraguas te dar\u00e1 una toalla cuando vea que te est\u00e1s mojando, y te abrazar\u00e1 fuerte cuando vea que no hay paraguas adicionales, y te abrazar\u00e1 fuerte para compartir el viaje, en lugar de simplemente extender la mano para tomar el paraguas y dejarte parado afuera del mismo, empap\u00e1ndote.<br \/><br \/>Esa persona ingrata que te permite dar sin parar puede incluso decirte: &quot;Est\u00e1 lloviendo otra vez, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 no coges un paraguas? \u00bfD\u00f3nde has estado?&quot;, hasta que caigas gravemente enfermo.<br \/><br \/>Aquellos que sostienen un paraguas para los dem\u00e1s tambi\u00e9n deber\u00edan tener su propio sol y un cielo despejado.<br \/><br \/>Empez\u00f3 a llover a c\u00e1ntaros otra vez. Mi paraguas se hab\u00eda perdido hac\u00eda tiempo en el Ganges del tiempo.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>La bondad es una virtud, pero si se da a la persona equivocada, se convierte en un grillete.<\/p>\n<p>A menudo sostenemos paraguas para los dem\u00e1s, pero olvidamos que tambi\u00e9n nos mojamos cuando llueve.<\/p>\n<p>Si la otra parte nunca entiende y s\u00f3lo da por sentados tus esfuerzos, la relaci\u00f3n perder\u00e1 el equilibrio.<\/p>\n<p>La persona verdaderamente digna te ayudar\u00e1 a refugiarte bajo su paraguas cuando est\u00e9s empapado, en lugar de dejarte enfrentar toda la tormenta 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