{"id":9792,"date":"2025-04-04T14:05:00","date_gmt":"2025-04-04T06:05:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/ben-tree-burial\/"},"modified":"2025-04-05T08:46:12","modified_gmt":"2025-04-05T00:46:12","slug":"ben-tree-burial","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/en\/ben-tree-burial\/","title":{"rendered":"Aben tree burial"},"content":{"rendered":"

The weather today is very sunny, just a little windy. Tell Aben that today is a good day and I will help you bury you in the small garden where we often play.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Today is a good day to bury Ah Ben<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

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After getting up and washing up briefly, he took Ah Ben's urn downstairs and first turned up the Sanskrit Heart Sutra that was played every day on the first floor. Then he walked out of the door, picked up a small shovel, and dug a small hole under each big tree in the small garden.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Use a small shovel to dig a small hole next to the tree in the small garden<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

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I opened the urn, took away the scriptures covering it, saw Aben whom I hadn't seen for a long time, reached out and touched the ashes that had turned into fine powder, and the past scenes instantly came to me. It was a wonderful feeling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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After opening it, I first saw the scripture paper covering it.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

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I poured Aben Yiai into each tree hole in the small garden in batches, hoping that they would help me protect the soul of this child and disperse the damage that the tree would have to endure. After all, the cremated bones would be converted into a strong alkaline solution when added with water, which could not be absorbed by plant roots. The soil pH value would need to be slowly adjusted later to achieve true dust to dust and earth to earth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The scriptures cover Ah Ben's ashes<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

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After pouring all the ashes in, cover them with soil again, sprinkle water on them, add some seafood that Ah Ben likes, cook it into a relatively refreshing broth, and sprinkle some of his favorite picky cat food, and this completes this simple tree burial ceremony.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Buried with scriptures<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

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The wind was blowing quite hard at first, but at the moment I put Him into the ground, the wind stopped for a while, and only started to blow again after He was completely covered with soil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Sprinkle some children around each tree
The picky cat I loved when I was alive<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

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It may be my psychology, or it may be that all things have spirits. Knowing this moment is the moment when Ah Benzhong came into this world, I can rest assured to do these things well, so that the ashes will not be blown away by the wind.

After the tree burial process was completed, I stayed in the small garden for a while at the place where Ah Ben and I used to play. Strange feelings kept coming to my heart. I felt that everything was so wonderful. The beloved one who had accompanied me for many years has left me forever. I can no longer bury my head in him and act coquettishly on him every day, and breathe in his charming and pleasant smell.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Gave the kids a small house
If they don't want to go into the house
There is also a place to shelter from the wind and rain<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

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Although I can still see that charming figure walking around me when I imagine it, I can no longer touch that fluffy and gentle body, nor can I kiss and hug it and fall asleep together again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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First, put on Ah Ben's collar
Let Him find a place to nest.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

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Today is a special day. In 2025, Qingming Festival and Children's Day happen to fall on the same day due to the solar terms. Tomb sweeping and sightseeing are on the same day. It is really a good day for us and a time that is easy to remember. I hope that after Ah Ben is buried, he will always play happily like a child.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The eternal resting place of Xiaotian and Shasha brought back from Sanzhi
The apple tree has sprouted
Working towards growth<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

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Xiaotian, Shasha and Aben can still lick and groom each other's fur, chase each other, and play around like they used to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Four trees in the small garden with small apple branches
Help me carry Ah Ben's love<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Today is a really good day...

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