{"id":9659,"date":"2025-03-13T10:45:54","date_gmt":"2025-03-13T02:45:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wound\/"},"modified":"2025-03-14T22:22:09","modified_gmt":"2025-03-14T14:22:09","slug":"wound","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/en\/wound\/","title":{"rendered":"Wounds are medals of growth, but no need to thank"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"1290\" height=\"726\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/xp7XkqjoNOU?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He once believed that the person next to him was the most reliable. After all, in this world, the person who could sleep with him was always the closest.<br><br>Late at night, with a familiar atmosphere all around, dreams and reality intertwined, trust is a matter of course.<br><br>But he was wrong!<br><br>When a person decides to leave, the first thing he lets go of is definitely not feelings.<br><br>She knew all his weaknesses, so a word from her or a turn from her could accurately leave the deepest wound in his heart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"576\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/fb_img_17418338966138308480480684764728-576x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-9658\" srcset=\"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/fb_img_17418338966138308480480684764728-576x1024.jpg 576w, https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/fb_img_17418338966138308480480684764728-169x300.jpg 169w, https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/fb_img_17418338966138308480480684764728-768x1365.jpg 768w, https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/fb_img_17418338966138308480480684764728-864x1536.jpg 864w, https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/fb_img_17418338966138308480480684764728-7x12.jpg 7w, https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/fb_img_17418338966138308480480684764728.jpg 1013w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 576px) 100vw, 576px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Love should be gentle.<br><br>But sometimes, it is an extremely sharp blade that cuts through your innocence and allows you to see the truth of love.<br><br>Not all affection can be reciprocated, and not all waiting can result in the return of the loved one.<br><br>I thought love could make people soft, but I found out that it makes people learn to be decisive.<br><br>From then on, he learned not to trust anyone easily, or to trust them completely.<br><br>Love is a subtle thing. It is always gentle at the beginning, making people intoxicated with it, like a drizzle that falls on the heart, moistening things silently.<br><br>However, its ending is often decisive. When he is still immersed in it, the other party has already withdrawn, leaving him with only an empty dream.<br><br>He once thought that love could make people become softer, but later he found out that love could also make people learn to be ruthless.<br><br>People who love too hard always fail miserably, so he begins to restrain himself, become cold, and learn to keep some room in love.<br><br>The deepest wounds in the world always come from the people you care about the most.<br><br>The words of strangers are but a gust of wind blowing from the roadside, gone as soon as they are spoken.<br><br>But familiar people know your weaknesses and know how to hit them accurately, leaving you nowhere to escape.<br><br>He once thought that time would dilute everything, but some wounds would never disappear. They would just slowly turn into a silent scar in the long river of time, reminding him of his former innocence.<br><br>People have to grow up, this is inevitable.<br><br>But who says that growth must be thanks to hurt?<br><br>Pain is just pain, and it is not worth being grateful for.<br><br>He will not thank those who taught him to be indifferent, but he will never let himself be hurt defenselessly again.<br><br>From then on, he learned to smile in the crowd and to remain silent in the night.<br><br>The world was still bustling and noisy, no one cared how miserable he had been, and he no longer opened his heart to anyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"1290\" height=\"726\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/FCOy0ZYm64o?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Cantonese version<\/figcaption><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I used to think that the person next to me was the most reliable, but I found that the deepest wounds often come from the people I care about the most.<\/p>\n<p>Love begins as gentle as drizzle, but often ends in determination and indifference.<\/p>\n<p>He learned not to trust easily and not to confide completely.<\/p>\n<p>Time may dilute everything, but it cannot erase the scars.<\/p>\n<p>Growth is inevitable, but hurt is not worth being grateful for.<\/p>\n<p>From then on, he smiled in the crowd and remained silent in the night. 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