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The "happy person gives in principle" mainly explains: "When there is a conflict or dispute between two parties, people who live relatively happy lives will often suffer greater losses if they choose to participate."

The reason is that those who are originally unhappy in life have a very low cost of being evil because they have nothing to lose and are happy to vent their unfortunate emotions on others.

After understanding this, we will understand more clearly that many times, it is meaningless to compete with such people for victory and defeat, and may instead get ourselves into a quagmire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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In fact, many "hateful" people may indeed be "pathetic", but their experiences do not deserve our sympathy, nor do we need to accommodate them.

Because essentially, we and such people are on different paths and cannot talk or coexist on the same channel.

Instead of getting entangled, it\u2019s better to keep your distance!

When we choose to stay away from bad people and bad things, it is not cowardice or escape, but a way of protecting and respecting our own happiness.

There are indeed many people in the world who are resentful because of difficulties in life. They often blame others and even have a revenge mentality.

As the saying goes, "No need to wear shoes if you are barefoot." They turn their dissatisfaction into venom, ready to dump it on anyone who comes close at any time, trying to drag others into the abyss of pain.

If we accidentally meet such a person, the best thing to do is to smile, wish them good luck, and then turn away without hesitation.

This is not indifference, but sobriety, and a sign of responsibility for oneself.

When we follow the "happy person gives in principle" and choose not to get involved with bad people and bad things, we can avoid unnecessary emotional consumption and losses, thereby protecting our own happiness.

Life is short, we should focus on those worthy people and things instead of being dragged into meaningless fights.

Smiling blessings and turning around gracefully are the best choices we can make and also true wisdom.

# Happiness # Give in # Bad people # Bad things # Be kind to others # Be evil to others # Unfortunate # Emotions # Quagmire # Hateful # Poor # Different # Different # Dialogue # Coexistence # Stay away # Entanglement # Distance # Guard # Respect # Abyss 1TP5 T turn # Smile # Blessing # Consumption # Loss # Life # Wisdom # Pain # Bitter water

In the new year, I wish those who are wrong a long life, and I also wish everyone who is happy good health and all the best.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The "Happy People's Retreat Principle" emphasizes that happy people should stay away from bad people and bad things, and avoid losing more by getting entangled with those who are unfortunate in life.<\/p>\n

Because these people have nothing to lose, they often drag others into suffering with their resentment.<\/p>\n

Instead of competing for superiority, it is better to keep a distance and protect your own happiness.<\/p>\n

This is not indifference, but the wisdom of taking responsibility for yourself.<\/p>\n

Life is short, so we should focus on the people and things that are worth it, smile and wish them well, turn around gracefully, avoid unnecessary emotional consumption, and live a happier life.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":9508,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"activitypub_content_warning":"","activitypub_content_visibility":"","activitypub_max_image_attachments":4,"activitypub_interaction_policy_quote":"anyone","activitypub_status":"federate","footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"beyondwords_generate_audio":"","beyondwords_project_id":"","beyondwords_content_id":"","beyondwords_player_style":"","beyondwords_language_id":"","beyondwords_title_voice_id":"","beyondwords_body_voice_id":"","beyondwords_summary_voice_id":"","beyondwords_error_message":"","beyondwords_disabled":"","beyondwords_delete_content":"","beyondwords_podcast_id":"","beyondwords_hash":"","publish_post_to_speechkit":"","speechkit_hash":"","speechkit_generate_audio":"","speechkit_project_id":"","speechkit_podcast_id":"","speechkit_error_message":"","speechkit_disabled":"","speechkit_access_key":"","speechkit_error":"","speechkit_info":"","speechkit_response":"","speechkit_retries":"","speechkit_updated_at":"","_speechkit_link":"","_speechkit_text":""},"categories":[1070],"tags":[1121,1122],"class_list":["post-9509","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-emotion","tag-1121","tag-1122"],"blocksy_meta":[],"featured_image_urls":{"full":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/fb_img_17375929384061882147891707804917.jpg",1080,1920,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/fb_img_17375929384061882147891707804917-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/fb_img_17375929384061882147891707804917-169x300.jpg",169,300,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/fb_img_17375929384061882147891707804917-768x1365.jpg",768,1365,true],"large":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/fb_img_17375929384061882147891707804917-576x1024.jpg",576,1024,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/fb_img_17375929384061882147891707804917-864x1536.jpg",864,1536,true],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/fb_img_17375929384061882147891707804917.jpg",1080,1920,false],"trp-custom-language-flag":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/fb_img_17375929384061882147891707804917-7x12.jpg",7,12,true]},"post_excerpt_stackable":"

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