{"id":6500,"date":"2023-12-12T04:05:16","date_gmt":"2023-12-11T20:05:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/doodle.com.tw\/zh_tw\/?p=6489"},"modified":"2026-02-10T18:19:13","modified_gmt":"2026-02-10T10:19:13","slug":"wife-05","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/doolounge.com\/en\/wife-05\/","title":{"rendered":"Shower Diary Chapter 5 Avoidance"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Being low-key should not be a cover-up. We mentioned at the beginning that we act very low-key, and the wedding was super low-key and registered directly. We agreed that if we really have a wedding in the future, we will go to the beach next to her home in Okinawa, at Hoshino Next to the resort, there is a beach party. I will help her make the wedding dress and headdress, and then everyone will eat and drink. There is no need to be too restrained. The red envelope money is just to buy a plane ticket and fly to Okinawa!<br><br>Although we said that, her subsequent strange behaviors always concealed the fact that she was married.<br><br>She told me that she was going to Tainan next time she came back. There was a bar sisters gathering in the evening. I asked what time the bar would open, and they made an appointment at 9 p.m. I told her that there was a skewers restaurant in Tainan that I liked very much. I miss you, so I can go with you and have dinner there at six o&#039;clock. Then I will come back to Taipei to take care of Ben while you continue to have fun.<br><br>Then I booked the tickets for both parties, and she suddenly asked my friend if he wanted to come to eat together. I said what\u2019s the problem with that! Of course you are welcome!<br><br>Two days later, I said my friend wouldn\u2019t be coming, because whatever happens...it\u2019s not a big problem. Anyway, my only goal is to go to Tainan to eat those delicious skewers.<br><br>Two days later, she said that her friend Gin could come out at seven o&#039;clock, but she would have to go back to take care of Xinjiang at eight o&#039;clock, and asked me if she could leave early.<br><br>That skewers shop opens at six o&#039;clock! You have an appointment at seven o&#039;clock. Does that mean you have to leave at six-thirty? It will take at least 20 minutes to finish ordering and baking, so do you mean to leave without me after eating two skewers?<br><br>After telling her this, she told me that because she has children, everyone will make do with her time, so that&#039;s it!<br><br>&quot;That&#039;s it!&quot; is also her most common mantra.<br><br>I said it\u2019s better that I don\u2019t want to go. You can just go to Tainan by yourself. Otherwise, why would I spend a lot of money on the bus and come back by myself for dinner? Don\u2019t you think it\u2019s weird?<br><br>After saying this, she became angry! She said she really wanted me to go with her, but why on earth would I have to pay for a long ride and then come back by myself? Did she think I was too free to do such a retarded thing?<br><br>Fortunately, when she came back to Taiwan, the typhoon was approaching and the news reported that the southern part of the country was very serious. She asked me if I wanted to cancel the trip, and I was relieved!<br><br>Thinking about it afterwards, if she had told the other party that she came with her husband, and had also agreed to go to dinner first before going for drinks, I don&#039;t believe that the other party would not understand, but would she? You probably haven\u2019t told the other party about this!<br><br>Much later I asked one of her nannies, the one who helped take care of Cooper when she went on business trips, that she had no idea she was married!<br><br>Did I say there are many signs that no one else has asked about?<br><br>For example, when I set up my own website, my art editor went in a different direction than before, and even helped with various PS photos and so on. She said that she had asked about it, but the response was that it was done with the help of a friend!<br><br>Turns out I&#039;m just a friend! !<br><br>I&#039;ve helped her do a lot of things, but I&#039;m just a dispensable friend! Why is it so evasive? Am I ugly, poor, or mean to her? He even told others that I was just a friend! ?<br><br>Afterwards, I asked her about these taboo things, and she said that no one had ever asked where they came from. I don\u2019t know what is going on in your mind, or do you think everyone takes these things that suddenly appear as a matter of course? Can it be done so that they won&#039;t bother you about your different behaviors?<br><br>If you don\u2019t believe it, you can read her articles. 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