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It's not because you didn't try hard enough, nor because anyone wasn't affectionate enough; it's just that some encounters are only responsible for blossoming, not for the outcome.

We watched the flowers bloom side by side, and that's enough.\u000b

As for whose window the flower will eventually land in, or whose palm it will fall in, that is never something that you or I can control.

In many aspects of life, we can only participate, not decide.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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But people are stubborn!

We always want an answer, an explanation, and a "what happened in the end" answer.

So he repeatedly asked, "What exactly constitutes a result?"

To have loved is the end result;
Entering into marriage is the outcome;
Turning away is also an outcome.

Having received, possessed, and sincerely given\u2014isn't that a kind of outcome in itself?

We're just too used to writing the outcome as forever and taking perfection as the only standard, so as long as we don't reach the end, we feel that everything has been in vain.

It wasn't until one day that I realized that life is never a complete fulfillment of expectations.

In this life, there will always be gaps or imperfections.

Unrequited love is a regret;
It's a pity to be reluctant to give it up;
Losing something is unbearable, and wanting something but being unable to obtain it is also a source of regret.

No one is truly without regrets!

Some people choose to cry out in pain, while others learn to remain silent.

It takes time to understand that regret is not failure; it is proof that you have truly lived and loved.

If nothing has ever moved you, what regrets could you possibly have?

Walk and observe, follow the wind; pause and forget, be at ease.

No longer clinging to those who have already left, nor anxious about stories yet to come.

Do not dwell on the past, and do not fear the future!

Treat every encounter as a perfect arrangement;
Treat every farewell as a gentle departure from life.

If there are regrets, walk alongside them; they are the traces of your life.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Unrequited love is a necessary lesson in life. It's not that we haven't tried hard enough, but that some encounters are only meant to blossom, not to guarantee a future.<\/p>\n

To have loved and possessed is itself a kind of accomplishment.<\/p>\n

Life is bound to have regrets, but regrets are not failures, but proof that you have truly lived.<\/p>\n

Learning to observe as you go, to pause and forget as you go, to not dwell on the past and not fear the future, and to walk alongside regrets\u2014that is maturity.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":10565,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"activitypub_content_warning":"","activitypub_content_visibility":"","activitypub_max_image_attachments":4,"activitypub_interaction_policy_quote":"anyone","activitypub_status":"federated","footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"beyondwords_generate_audio":"","beyondwords_project_id":"","beyondwords_content_id":"","beyondwords_player_style":"","beyondwords_language_id":"","beyondwords_title_voice_id":"","beyondwords_body_voice_id":"","beyondwords_summary_voice_id":"","beyondwords_error_message":"","beyondwords_disabled":"","beyondwords_delete_content":"","beyondwords_podcast_id":"","beyondwords_hash":"","publish_post_to_speechkit":"","speechkit_hash":"","speechkit_generate_audio":"","speechkit_project_id":"","speechkit_podcast_id":"","speechkit_error_message":"","speechkit_disabled":"","speechkit_access_key":"","speechkit_error":"","speechkit_info":"","speechkit_response":"","speechkit_retries":"","speechkit_updated_at":"","_speechkit_link":"","_speechkit_text":""},"categories":[1070,58,635],"tags":[1182,1071,1038,1072,620],"class_list":["post-10566","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-emotion","category-wife","category-free","tag-1182","tag-1071","tag-1038","tag-1072","tag-620"],"blocksy_meta":[],"featured_image_urls":{"full":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/fb_img_17655814251952518252287849428301.jpg",1125,2000,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/fb_img_17655814251952518252287849428301-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/fb_img_17655814251952518252287849428301-169x300.jpg",169,300,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/fb_img_17655814251952518252287849428301-768x1365.jpg",768,1365,true],"large":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/fb_img_17655814251952518252287849428301-576x1024.jpg",576,1024,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/fb_img_17655814251952518252287849428301-864x1536.jpg",864,1536,true],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/fb_img_17655814251952518252287849428301.jpg",1125,2000,false],"trp-custom-language-flag":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/fb_img_17655814251952518252287849428301-7x12.jpg",7,12,true]},"post_excerpt_stackable":"

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