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Life is actually an evolutionary process of subtraction. It is about calming down unnecessary noise, throwing away unworthy people and things, and keeping the truly important things.

The greatest absurdity in life is to always be entangled in bad people and bad things, which exhausts all your energy.

It\u2019s not that the world is too complicated, but that we know that the other person will not get better and things will not go smoothly, but we still pour our time and emotions into it.

If you meet someone who drags you down, please withdraw in time; if you encounter something that keeps you awake, please stop the loss decisively.

Only when we know how to let go can we live freely.
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Zhuangzi: "When you feel powerless, you should cut off your actions; when disturbing thoughts, you should abandon them; when you have a weak connection, you should leave them."

Letting go is not running away; withdrawing is not being heartless!

That is setting boundaries for your own life: "I cherish, but I don't feel wronged; I care, but I don't waste my energy."

Later you will find that many gatherings and separations have a time limit. Those who are supposed to come will come naturally, and you cannot keep those who are supposed to go.

At first glance, it seems like a loss, a few fewer friends, a few fewer communications, and a few fewer meaningless explanations; but looking again, it is a gain, a clear mind, a stable heartbeat, and time to focus on what I love.

What you cut off is the burden, and what you get in return is ease; what you let go of is the obsession, and what you welcome is freedom!

Be decisive when it is time to break up, be calm when it is time to give up, and don't look back when it is time to leave.

Save your energy for those who are worthy, and keep your heart on things that are worth doing.

When you start subtracting, life will add for you; when you stop entangled, there will be room for all the good things.

May you and I be able to learn this lesson and gain a freer and more relaxed life.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Life is a process of subtraction. Only by letting go of unworthy people and things can we have space to embrace beauty.<\/p>\n

When it\u2019s time to break up, break up; when it\u2019s time to give up, give up; bravely withdraw from unnecessary entanglements.<\/p>\n

It seems like losing, but in fact you are gaining!<\/p>\n

You let go of burdens and gain ease; you give up obsessions and welcome freedom.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":10448,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"activitypub_content_warning":"","activitypub_content_visibility":"","activitypub_max_image_attachments":4,"activitypub_interaction_policy_quote":"anyone","activitypub_status":"federated","footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"beyondwords_generate_audio":"","beyondwords_project_id":"","beyondwords_content_id":"","beyondwords_player_style":"","beyondwords_language_id":"","beyondwords_title_voice_id":"","beyondwords_body_voice_id":"","beyondwords_summary_voice_id":"","beyondwords_error_message":"","beyondwords_disabled":"","beyondwords_delete_content":"","beyondwords_podcast_id":"","beyondwords_hash":"","publish_post_to_speechkit":"","speechkit_hash":"","speechkit_generate_audio":"","speechkit_project_id":"","speechkit_podcast_id":"","speechkit_error_message":"","speechkit_disabled":"","speechkit_access_key":"","speechkit_error":"","speechkit_info":"","speechkit_response":"","speechkit_retries":"","speechkit_updated_at":"","_speechkit_link":"","_speechkit_text":""},"categories":[1070,1204,965,58,635],"tags":[1364,1362,1361,1365,1093,1363,620,1366],"class_list":["post-10449","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-emotion","category-1204","category-hima","category-wife","category-free","tag-1364","tag-1362","tag-1361","tag-1365","tag-1093","tag-1363","tag-620","tag-1366"],"blocksy_meta":[],"featured_image_urls":{"full":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/fb_img_17569392814324387904791770563093.jpg",1125,2000,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/fb_img_17569392814324387904791770563093-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/fb_img_17569392814324387904791770563093-169x300.jpg",169,300,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/fb_img_17569392814324387904791770563093-768x1365.jpg",768,1365,true],"large":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/fb_img_17569392814324387904791770563093-576x1024.jpg",576,1024,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/fb_img_17569392814324387904791770563093-864x1536.jpg",864,1536,true],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/fb_img_17569392814324387904791770563093.jpg",1125,2000,false],"trp-custom-language-flag":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/fb_img_17569392814324387904791770563093-7x12.jpg",7,12,true]},"post_excerpt_stackable":"

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