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If you expect everyone to understand you, that itself is the biggest delusion.
Just like in the world of crows, every swan is an alien, born with original sin.
Instead of explaining amid the clamor, it is better to choose silence, because understanding itself is a scarce luxury.
People who truly understand you don\u2019t need too much explanation; people who don\u2019t understand you, no matter how much you explain, it will be in vain.
Communication between people is not essentially something that can be made up by "explanation", but rather "resonance" that allows for encounters.
Just like musical sounds, different audio frequencies will naturally produce harmony, but if the frequencies are not synchronized, no matter how they are harmonized, they will still be harsh and unbearable.
We always long to be seen and understood!
However, maturity in life often becomes the norm after encountering setbacks again and again and beginning to accept "loneliness".
The greatest freedom in life is not having to prove yourself to anyone.
Don't waste your energy on people who don't understand you, and don't worry about misunderstandings.
The real distance is not far or near!
Time will filter out true friends, space will make the people you are destined to meet appear by your side, cognition will attract people of the same level to approach you, and your three views will determine how far you can go.
Expecting to understand is a delusion. Anyone who can understand this text has already overcome many limitations.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
There are four limitations between people: a summer insect cannot talk about ice, which is the limitation of time; a frog in a well cannot talk about the sea, which is the limitation of space; a blind person cannot talk about light, which is the limitation of cognition; and a common person cannot talk about the Tao, which is the limitation of the three views.<\/p>\n
Expecting everyone to understand you is a delusion.<\/p>\n
There is no need for much words to those who understand you; no matter how much explanation you give to those who don\u2019t understand you, it will be in vain.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":10421,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"activitypub_content_warning":"","activitypub_content_visibility":"","activitypub_max_image_attachments":4,"activitypub_interaction_policy_quote":"anyone","activitypub_status":"federated","footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"beyondwords_generate_audio":"","beyondwords_project_id":"","beyondwords_content_id":"","beyondwords_player_style":"","beyondwords_language_id":"","beyondwords_title_voice_id":"","beyondwords_body_voice_id":"","beyondwords_summary_voice_id":"","beyondwords_error_message":"","beyondwords_disabled":"","beyondwords_delete_content":"","beyondwords_podcast_id":"","beyondwords_hash":"","publish_post_to_speechkit":"","speechkit_hash":"","speechkit_generate_audio":"","speechkit_project_id":"","speechkit_podcast_id":"","speechkit_error_message":"","speechkit_disabled":"","speechkit_access_key":"","speechkit_error":"","speechkit_info":"","speechkit_response":"","speechkit_retries":"","speechkit_updated_at":"","_speechkit_link":"","_speechkit_text":""},"categories":[13,1204,58,635],"tags":[1355,1358,1357,1356,1354],"class_list":["post-10422","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-murmur","category-1204","category-wife","category-free","tag-1355","tag-1358","tag-1357","tag-1356","tag-1354"],"blocksy_meta":[],"featured_image_urls":{"full":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/17561663019941418531311490923487.jpg",1280,720,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/17561663019941418531311490923487-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/17561663019941418531311490923487-300x169.jpg",300,169,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/17561663019941418531311490923487-768x432.jpg",768,432,true],"large":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/17561663019941418531311490923487-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/17561663019941418531311490923487.jpg",1280,720,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/17561663019941418531311490923487.jpg",1280,720,false],"trp-custom-language-flag":["https:\/\/doolounge.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/17561663019941418531311490923487-18x10.jpg",18,10,true]},"post_excerpt_stackable":"
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