In early January, I was watching a series of movies at home, and I read the comic "I Die Again", which was adapted from the Korean drama "The Day I Die", which is the masterpiece. The content tells the story of having to die and be reborn 12 times before going to hell.
Watching the compact plot, I wondered silently why I had to make myself so exhausted. After watching the ending, I picked up my phone and typed a long string of text to my wife, who had never read or replied to my messages.
Tell her that I am really tired and don’t want to hate you anymore. You can do whatever you want. Tell her to ask the lawyer to cancel the mediation court and stop spending money on unnecessary things. I also deleted all the articles and found out I still love her very much and I can’t directly destroy her. I can let her love her as she pleases. I just want to have a good chat with her and let her tell me when she adjusts her mood and ask her not to continue. I can't read it anymore and ignore people, because that really doesn't help at all.
After a while, he finally responded to me and said, "The purpose of canceling the mediation is that I don't have to make the public apology you require. Are you willing to divorce?"
Only in this way can we talk. Otherwise, as you said, no matter how we talk, it will be parallel lines. "
I said that mediation was useless, it was just a waste of money for lawyers, and I could directly apply for litigation without mediation.
Your lawyer probably hasn't told you these things at all, and then asked her to cancel the various blocks on me, because that makes people feel bad, and I can actually see whether there is a blockade, and there is another A lot of people would tell me from time to time what she was doing and what she was doing.
Because at that time, she was having all kinds of fun in Hokkaido!
Reply to me: "Sorry! My reception is very poor in the mountains. I can barely send messages, but the phone cannot. If I want to talk on the phone, I may have to wait until I get to a place with good reception later."
Even if you don't need me to publicly apologize, you still have to be willing to sign the divorce, otherwise I can't make any response.
I don't want to talk to you about lawyers. If you want to pursue this, I don't know what to talk about or what to block. I have to wait until the divorce is finalized. I will only talk about everything after the divorce is completed. "
Aren't I already saying no to you, and now you're just angry and don't talk to me first?
And you don’t even know yet, what am I going to talk to you about? Why are you so bad-tempered and provoking people like this? I should be telling you this in a loud voice now!
I think you should find a place and call me when the call is good, because you really use all your words randomly and you don’t even know when to say something.
Then he replied to me: "I'm not angry, that's your idea. If you feel uncomfortable, I won't respond to it. If you don't want to divorce, I will take legal channels."
It seems that I really have nothing to say to you. When you look at what I say, you think I have a bad temper and are provocative. I am not at all. I am typing calmly now.
Sorry, my words make you uncomfortable! I just want to discuss everything after the divorce, thank you! "
Let me reiterate, so what you are saying now is that you are not even willing to have a good communication with me first, right?
You don't even know what I want to talk to you about, and then you refuse directly. Do you think this will make people happy?
Reply: "It's not that I don't want to talk to you, but after you have done these things and are not divorced, I don't know what to say to you, really!
And no matter what I say, it will always be interpreted as another meaning. That’s why I replied to you, no matter what I say, bad temper, provocation, or misuse of words...
I believe it is the same on the phone. I really tell you this calmly. It doesn’t matter if you don’t believe it. I will only talk about it after all the divorce matters are resolved. This is the last message. Thank you! "
Didn't I tell you at the beginning that I didn't want to ruin you, and asking you to cancel the mediation court would also save you money. If you want a divorce, just come back and sign.
Then I just wanted to have a good chat with you first. What’s wrong with it being so simple?
He keeps talking about what he wants to talk about, and we will talk about it after the divorce! Why can't we talk about it first? You have to be like this, right? I wonder if a divorce agreement also needs to be negotiated first?
Then you think it's great if you keep irritating people? You don’t even know how your words are written. Do you want to show them to others? Are you irritating them all the time?
If you have always maintained this way, I really wonder why I have to be so tolerant!
And it’s been so long, and you still haven’t really thought about what each other did wrong. Since you must do this, I really can’t tell you anything more, from beginning to end, You didn't feel sorry at all, nor did you hope that this matter could be handled properly!
Since you don’t want to talk at all, forget it, then as you wish, I will directly propose not to mediate, and if you really want the court to rule, then so be it!
I really feel like I'm so mean. Even Xiaolu keeps scolding me. You're not listening or watching at all. You only live in your own world forever. Why do you have to keep thinking about yourself and thinking about all kinds of things for you? Makes myself super angry!
Since you will be happiest if you decide this way, then that’s really it! I don’t want to deal with it simply. Please communicate with me carefully first, and then we will really see you in court!
I will restore all the articles I deleted later. Since you want to do this, I will continue to write them all so that everyone knows what kind of person you are.
Regarding the issue of portrait rights, I have already asked a lawyer. As long as it is a photo of a couple, there is no issue of portrait rights. I want to fight with you. I am really, really super angry right now!
Reply to me: "I don't want to have a serious discussion. I think you misunderstood again. I just want to express that I have no response to your public trial online.
Then I still hope to have a face-to-face interview. Not only do the words have no warmth, but the expressions cannot be seen when talking on the phone, and it is easy to misunderstand the meaning. My lawyer is willing to provide a venue for us to talk alone. "
Then the last message conversation ended here.
I really don't understand. What does it mean to have a good conversation when you reply to me like this?
Then she immediately took a screenshot of the conversation record between me and her and showed it to Xiao Lu. She also added some nonsense to her, causing Xiao Lu to scold me for what I had done. Just talk about what happened between you and your husband. Well, he keeps mentioning me.
I searched from the conversation record with Liangzi and took a screenshot of the time for Xiaolu. She only mentioned it once when the incident happened, and just once. There were not many nonsense Liangzi said. I really don’t know. It’s good to know what to say!
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