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Auch reife Menschen haben Gef\u00fchle, k\u00f6nnen aber unterscheiden, wie und wann sie unterschiedliche Gef\u00fchle ausdr\u00fccken und wie sie es vermeiden, sich selbst und andere zu verletzen.
Wahre Reife besteht darin, angesichts von Schwierigkeiten und Herausforderungen n\u00fcchtern und ruhig zu bleiben und bei R\u00fcckschl\u00e4gen weder w\u00fctend zu werden noch zu weinen oder sich f\u00fcr Schweigen und Flucht zu entscheiden.
Reife Menschen denken proaktiv und suchen nach L\u00f6sungen. Sie sind sogar bereit, eine Win-Win-Situation zu koordinieren. Diese Einstellung ist ein Zeichen wahrer St\u00e4rke.
Erwachsen zu sein bedeutet nicht, keine Lust mehr auf Spielzeug oder Fantasien zu haben, sondern mit der Realit\u00e4t gut klarzukommen, auch wenn man ein Kind im Herzen tr\u00e4gt.
Auch wenn Sie Ihre Vorstellungskraft und kindliche Unschuld behalten, wissen Sie auch, wie Sie mit sich selbst klarkommen und friedlich mit anderen zusammenleben, sodass Sie frei und ohne das Gef\u00fchl leben k\u00f6nnen, ungerecht behandelt zu werden.
Mann, es ist wirklich so einfach!
Die wahre Seite seiner selbst zeigt man oft nur der Person, die man mag, oder einem wirklich guten Bruder.
Nur in diesen Beziehungen wagen sie es, kindisch zu sein, Witze zu machen und sich kokett zu benehmen.
Doch das ist keine Unreife, sondern eine Form von Vertrauen und Entspannung. Die Bereitschaft, seine weiche Seite zu zeigen, ist ein Ausdruck tieferer Reife.
Das Wort \u201eReife\u201c wird oft \u00fcberstrapaziert. Wir h\u00f6ren oft, dass Menschen von ihren Partnern Reife und Stabilit\u00e4t erwarten, gleichzeitig aber auch, dass sie sie jederzeit gl\u00fccklich machen und alle ihre emotionalen Werte ber\u00fccksichtigen k\u00f6nnen.
Solche ungleichen Erwartungen f\u00fchren letztendlich nur zu einer unausgewogenen Beziehung.
Vergessen Sie nicht, dass die Person, auf die Sie sich immer gefreut haben, die reif und best\u00e4ndig ist und Sie den ganzen Tag lang umgarnen m\u00f6chte, auch eine Person ist, die Verst\u00e4ndnis und F\u00fcrsorge braucht und Gef\u00fchle hat.
Sie m\u00f6chten lediglich, dass die andere Person Ihnen gen\u00fcgend emotionalen Wert gibt, vergessen jedoch, dass sie diesen auch braucht!
Reife sollte kein Druck sein, sondern eine Kraft, die es uns erm\u00f6glicht, f\u00fcreinander zu sorgen und gemeinsam zu wachsen.
Die Menschen in Yilan lieben es, von Zeit zu Zeit Feuerwerksk\u00f6rper zu z\u00fcnden!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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Das kindische Verhalten eines Mannes ist oft ein Ausdruck der Entspannung gegen\u00fcber der Person, der er vertraut, und bedeutet nicht, dass er unreif ist.<\/p>\n
Wahre Reife ist die F\u00e4higkeit, friedlich mit sich selbst und anderen zusammenzuleben. Wenn in einer Beziehung nur eine Seite \u201eReife, Stabilit\u00e4t und das Gl\u00fcck anderer\u201c fordert, f\u00fchrt dies nur zu einem Ungleichgewicht und ignoriert die Tatsache, dass auch die andere Partei emotionale Wertsch\u00e4tzung braucht.<\/p>\n
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