There was no contact at all during this period, about a week apart! I passed a book and introduction to Intimacy Fear to her!
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Thank you for sharing! Just because I'm not good enough, just because we can't fall in love doesn't mean we can't be friends, at least that's what I always think.
I am really calm when I say these words to you. Many times, people will not always live in the sun, so they must learn to be strong. Many times people do not necessarily need to be loved or love others in order to achieve self-fulfillment. In an era where we don’t know which will come first, tomorrow or the accident, we all choose to want better, but we just choose differently.
Anyway, thank you.
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So what do you want to do next?
Or are you only thinking about your own selfish side?
Saying that we can't love each other, we can be friends.
But you are just showing off and indifferent now, aren't you?
Do you really treat me as a family member or friend?
No need to think about what to do from my perspective?
You don't just leave things alone and it's like they never happened. This is what you have always told me.
When something happens, you don't work hard to face it bravely, but just avoid it, thinking that it's okay to just push the other person away?
But it's only you who feels better. How about the other person's feelings?
Is it worth caring about?
We are more than just friends after all, okay?
We are still family, at least for now. Why do I need to be treated so cruelly? Just because you think this is best!
You tell me that you will not always live in the sunshine and you have to learn to be strong. Think about it, I haven't been strong enough in the past few months, and I have been embracing and enduring all kinds of dark sides in your private life?
Why do I have to be so virtuous? It's just because you are sick, I love you very much, and you are my family, so I can tolerate all your rude treatment unconditionally.
You realize that you really can't love me at all. We are both over forty and have become adults. This should not be the way to deal with it.
You told your lawyer that you were too impulsive to get married, and then you kept quarreling and felt that you didn't want a divorce. Imagine if most of them were one-sided. When you think of the conflict, you don't understand. I apologize in advance regardless of whether it is right or wrong, but your emotions are still confused and confused. Speaking of which, when I vowed again and you were mad, I would calm you down just by kissing you. What happened next? It has never been achieved!
In the end, it turned out like this. I also gave you a choice, either to start over again, but you seemed to be firmly unwilling.
It seems that everything that has happened to us is just a dream, and my other half seems to be fake!
I also said a few days ago that I have something to deal with in Taipei and I have no one to take care of me. But it seems that I can’t expect your other half to help. I sent you a message but you pretended not to have seen it. This is really disturbing. People are sad!
Your writings have always been full of illusions, saying that people will not always live in the sun, but you have written a lot of sunshine articles, thanked so many people, and never mentioned me at all, as if I have no interest in you at all. It's as if he doesn't exist and is not the most important person! Then why on earth do you want to marry me!
Being low-key is not called hiding. You hide people and abuse them in every possible way, just because they regard you as family and can dedicate themselves to you unconditionally. But what have you ever done for me unconditionally?
So I have to speak up for myself, and I can no longer suffer bullying and inaction. If I really want to divorce and put an end to all this, I need to publicly announce this relationship, admit to everyone that everything I have done is unreasonable, and apologize to me.
I have given you a time limit. If you still feel that you can't do it and don't want to start over with me, after the time limit, don't expect me to take care of your family anymore. I will deal with all these matters openly and openly!
At least I believe that after all this is over, after I turn around and leave, those who really care about you will take good care of you!
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That's why we can't get along, because you always feel that what I do is wrong, it is not the marriage you imagined, you have the marriage you imagined, I just can't do it!
I once apologized to you, but you didn't think I was apologizing. You thought a public apology was an apology. I didn't handle it. You said you wanted to find a lawyer, so I did. I just left everything to the lawyer!
And if you think it’s all my fault, please don’t keep posting some yes or no questions.
I want to tell you, if you didn't tell me to find a lawyer, we would be friends and willing to help. But in the end you scolded me like this and told me to find a lawyer to talk to you, that's all.
Whatever I tell you now will be interpreted by you as another idea. Sorry to bother you! I originally wanted to respond to your sharing, but in the end it was like this!
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You have been saying that you want me to find the instruction manual, but you have not given me any direction. As long as I keep trying, I will keep breaking my head in various ways, just because you have no so-called correct direction and will always keep changing.
You have always asked me to understand you, but have you ever tried to understand me?
Have you tried to understand why I treat you like this?
Do you really know what I mean by asking you to find a lawyer?
Have you thought about it carefully?
I want you to find a lawyer because I want him to tell you clearly that if I don't agree to the divorce, no matter how reluctant you are, if you really go to court, you still won't get the judgment you want!
Because I am the victim, and I have all the favorable evidence.
When I say that I scold you like this, I am just explaining to you the various actions you have taken towards me during this period. Why do you feel that I am scolding you like this? I am just letting you know that all these exaggerated behaviors are the crux of the problem. Scold you?
Do you know that your lawyer told me to compensate me with profits?
I don’t know if you want him to say this, or if he thinks this can be easily solved. Who wants the money?
Have you ever thought that money can solve everything?
If you don’t believe all this, and your lawyer hasn’t properly informed you that this is a lawsuit with zero chance of winning for you, then hurry up and ask your lawyer to hurry up and handle the trial!
I gave you plenty of time before, but now you only have one week left. After you have really delayed the deadline I mentioned, you can only take back the super simple and easy conditions I gave you!
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Please don't worry, I will handle it in Taiwan! !
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